there are some people who you can get to know with out asking or interacting with those around them……they don’t need others to reflect who they are but are completely themselves in everything they do, they are all of them infront of you…..
mind you this is not about originality…nobody is a ‘pure blood’…we all got a little of some one or something else in us but we all combine the chemicals differently based on what we learn or even unlearn….
i haven’t met many like that though…..and then again i can only speak for myself….
everyone has layers, but what these layers are made up of defer from person to person…..
hmm well i guess thats one way to look at it…..it is also fair to say that people reveal themselves differently to different people….based on maybe first impressions, the vibes they get off of others, how or if the people they interact with even reciprocate to their actions……so many things depend on so many things….
i for one rely on vibes, my gut…..sometimes i’ve been proven wrong…or how i like to say i am partially mistaken cause i always seem to find some strong truth in the direction that my gut points me to……and since it’s only been recently that i’ve gotten back in touch with or acknowledged my instinct i kinda get excited by even the tiniest bit of truth i find in what she reveals to me….she…or he…..or just it…..
it would be great to just be, but to be you have to be recieved, and i don’t think it’s intentional but people tend to rely on these social mirrors to let themselves unfold…..at the same time i prefer the explanation of how its not just the person but its the situation they are in, those whom they are ‘revealling’ themselves to…
to just take people as they are would probably help them be as they are, truely themselves, but we have these little poleroid pictures of things in our heads and even with out knowing some one we have expectations of them, or the situations we find ourselves in…but i just feel that accpetance is the starting point of great relationships, it’s that push that sends things rotating in a circle….you accept some one as they are, they wanna be as they are, they tend to return the acceptance, you tend to want to be as you are, both or all involved can be all they want to be and the richest colours spill from our guts……this author….who claims to be bisexual….(forgive me i dont remember her name) said that she loves her fiance not because he is a ‘he’ but because of the person he is and if this person was in the female form i’m guessing she’d love ‘her’ just as much…..makes sense….this sin’t jsut about that kind of love…..but about all relationships
everything is a cycle,….(from mirrors to cycles…typical verbal excretions)…. you can start one or end one, but circluar movement is in nature, life cycles, water, the orbits of planets………why not triangular, or rectangular or as polygons??…because a circle is the simplest and most effortless shape….it’s light, bouncy., not edgy (less attitude)…it takes no sides….just goes on and on and on…..remember we’re not talking about patterns and elements, we’re talking about processes, communication, interaction and free living….and nature seems to dance in circular motion to a tune that we sing with it….everything’s interdepent….mirrors are for self reflection…….
zip…..got alot more to learn….don’t want to draw any conclusions….